Choosing the song that you and your loved one will dance to may seem like an easy task but if you are trying to describe an exquisite love like no other it may take some time. How can one sum up the love of their life in a few minutes? Well patience will lead you to the prefect song. The first song that came to mind was "Love Devine" by Seal. Now that thought this was a great choice for the both of us because I love the song and so does Derrick. In addition, Seal is one of Derrick's favorite artists. We both agree and said let's choose this one.
Later that day after discussing the wedding with some co-workers one of them said how much they liked "Every Time I Close My Eyes" By Babyface. When my co-worker mentioned that song bells went off. I remembered how much I loved that song and how it does describe our love. It was perfect.
Some days passed and I started to think about the type of dance I wanted us to dance during our first song. I was thinking "Waltz All the Way" I knew that a "Southern Charm Wedding" such as ours would be perfect with a Waltz during the first dance. I later contacted my dance instructor and told her I think it was a Waltz and she said "If it is a contemporary song most likely it would be a Rumba or Fox Trot" Now don't get me wrong, I love those dances but at that moment I knew I needed to choose a Waltz song. So afterwards I googled "Waltz Songs" I saw some interesting selections. I'm Born Again, Three Time a Lady. Good songs but not quite it. I then remembered one of the movies I love "Take the Lead" In the movie there was a scene at the end where a couple danced a Waltz to "Fascination" by Nat King Cole. It was perfect. That was the song I would choose. It was sultry, elegant, and magical. It described our story simply and beautifully. Fascination became love.
So what is facination?
Fascination is the single most powerful means of persuading and influencing behavior.
Anything can become fascinating, anything at all, if it activates one of the seven triggers. Once you identify which triggers to activate, your ideas become more fascinating. So does your company’s brand, your conversations with your team, and your relationship with your spouse.
More importantly, YOU can become more fascinating, too.
No matter who you are, no matter what your personality, you’re already fascinating. Fascination comes from your own natural traits and abilities. You can become more fascinating, and in fact, if you’re interested in influencing anyone from your clients to your children, you must.
We all compete to be heard and remembered. Brands compete for loyalty. Employees compete for recognition. Parents compete against SpongeBob Squarepants for their child’s attention.
When you fascinate someone, they cease to think of anything else. You’ve connected with them in a profound and personal way. That is why this is the perfect song for us.
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